MStar Kids’ Philosophy on Preteen Development and Ministry
Preteens are entering a developmental stage where their cognitive abilities are shifting from concrete to abstract thinking. This transition, typically beginning around ages 9–12, is part of what psychologists call formal operational thinking. Here’s why they’re asking more in-depth, abstract questions and how we can positively foster their curiosity to explore questions about God:
1. Growing Cognitive Abilities
Preteens are developing the ability to think beyond the here-and-now. They can process hypothetical situations, consider “what if” scenarios, and make connections between previously unrelated concepts. This allows them to tackle deeper topics like the nature of God, eternity, and morality. By welcoming their questions and exploring answers, we can nurture their critical thinking skills and help them see faith as intellectually robust.
2. Desire for Independence and Identity
Preteens are beginning to explore their own identity and beliefs. They start questioning what they’ve been taught to better understand if and why they believe it. Encouraging these questions in a safe, nonjudgmental environment helps them personalize their faith and strengthens their relationship with God. Rather than fearing their doubts, we can view their curiosity as a sign of growing spiritual maturity.
3. Influence of Social Awareness
At this age, preteens become more aware of the world around them. They notice injustices, ethical dilemmas, and complex issues in their communities or globally. This newfound awareness sparks questions about fairness, suffering, and God’s role in addressing these challenges. By engaging in conversations about how faith applies to real-world issues, we can help them see God’s heart for justice and His presence during pain.
4. Desire for Deeper Relationships
Preteens are striving for deeper emotional and relational connections. Their questions often reflect a desire to understand God and others on a more meaningful level. By encouraging open dialogue about God’s love, His character, and how He works in our lives, we can help them build a strong, relational faith.
5. Creating a Safe Space for Questions
To positively foster their inquisitiveness, it’s essential to create a safe space where no question about God feels off-limits. Affirm their curiosity and let them know it’s okay to wrestle with big ideas. Provide biblical and thoughtful answers, but also be willing to say, “I don’t know, but let’s explore that together.” Engage them with resources like age-appropriate devotionals, apologetics tools, or interactive discussions that encourage them to keep seeking God.
By embracing their questions and encouraging exploration, we show preteens that God welcomes their curiosity and that their faith can grow deeper through seeking, learning, and understanding.
Why do we have Bridge45 events outside of Sunday service?
1. Building Stronger Community:
Events outside of Sunday mornings provide a unique space for kids to build friendships with their peers in a relaxed, fun environment. These relationships help foster a sense of belonging within the church, making them feel more connected to their faith community.
2. Reinforcing Faith in Everyday Life:
Engaging with kids outside of a traditional church setting helps them see that their faith isn’t confined to Sunday mornings. It encourages them to apply what they’re learning about Jesus to their daily lives, in places and situations they encounter regularly.
3. Encouraging Spiritual Growth:
Preteens are at an age where they are starting to ask deeper, more abstract questions about God and faith. Events can provide opportunities for intentional conversations, helping them explore these questions in meaningful ways while growing closer to God.
4. Providing Fun and Memorable Experiences:
At this age, kids are highly relational and thrive on experiences that are both fun and impactful. Quarterly events create lasting memories that not only bring joy but also reinforce the positive association between their faith and their church community.
5. Preparing for the Next Stage:
Preteens are on the verge of transitioning into middle school, Highlife. Quarterly events help them gain confidence in their role as part of the church community, easing the transition into the next phase of ministry.
By providing these opportunities, Mstar Kids is not only enriching the spiritual lives of these kids but also investing in the next generation of disciples in a thoughtful and intentional way.